It's been a long time ...

It has been quite some time since I posted on here, mostly because life has been crazy busy and when things get crazy, unfortunately stuff like posting to a blog becomes something that just never gets done.   However, considering the latest turn of events, and that I have some spare time, I thought I might create a new post, and catch everyone up on what has been happening.   I think it actually has been years since I posted here ... and quite a bit has happened!

The last I had posted, I think my wife was in a pretty hot and heavy affair.  Well, just like all good things ... this too came to an end.   Not any sort of abrupt ending, but more of a transformation.  He is now a very good friend of ours and he is spending more time with his wife and kids.   Although Lori will always have a very large place in her heart for him, she has moved on.

Over the past few years, they've gotten together and made love a handful of times, each time was pretty hot, very hot in fact, but he has been less and less available and Lori has been less and less excited about sex in general, and so, it just faded out.

I had been trying to get Lori to get excited again about meeting a new guy, finding a hot and passionate affair to get her libido going, but she just never seemed overly excited.

Last summer Lori met an extremely hot guy, tall, handsome, young (early 30's), great body, very nice guy, and all of the sudden, that spark was back.  She made love to him in our pool, in our bed, in our living room, - in a matter of a week, she had gone from not much excitement to a serious crush.   Then, he just disappeared.   I think maybe she liked him too much and he was just looking for total no string attached.  After that - getting Lori excited about meeting someone new got more and more difficult.

We continued to hang on and off with her old boyfriend - a few times they made love, and it was great, but it was not going to be the same ... they were close friends and nothing more.

I managed to get Lori to meet another guy, he was good looking with a great body, mid 40's, lived about 20 miles away.   It seemed perfect - we met one night at a restaurant half way between where we lived, wound up playing music trivia at the bar and the two of them seemed to really hit it off.
By the next weekend, we were seeing him again, and Lori was pretty excited about seeing him, - we played pool at a local bar, and Lori and Steve (that was his name) played some in his car before we went home.   When we got in the car, she said she wanted to fuck him.  I was a little surprised, I wasn't sure the feeling was there for her.   So, the two of them kept in touch, and we saw him again the next weekend.  This time we went to a local pub close to our house, and came back to our house to play.   Lori and Steve went up to the bedroom after kissing for a while down at our bar, and the two of them had what I thought was great sex.

Unfortunately the next day, Lori told me she just didn't feel the chemistry.  We met him again and they had sex again, and this sealed the deal for Lori, she just didn't have the sexual chemistry.  She told him she liked him, but the chemistry just wasn't there.

Not only were we back to the drawing board, but I think Lori's excitement about meeting anybody was lower than ever.   I started figuring we would be giving up on it.  That was how last summer ended.

The entire winter we just went about life, nothing too fun, just hanging with friends, partying.  We both sort of stopped working out ... just didn't seem overly excited by anything.  We got two new puppies and that took our lives over.

Fast forward to this summer and I had convinced Lori that we needed a boost in our sex lives, we hardly had sex, and when we did, it wasn't earth shattering, we hardly even did ourselves together anymore.  We definitely needed something - she needed something.  So I convinced her to try meeting one more guy.

Well, we looked again, and found a couple guys that seemed to fit the bill - we tried to get together with them, but they seemed to always have an excuse.  One we made plans with three times, each time at the last minute, he cancelled for some crazy reason.   We did meet one guy ... Michael, he was extremely handsome and had a chiseled hairless body.  Amazing body, this got Lori very excited, and he seemed like a great guy.   We went out with him a couple times, had a good time, - he was quiet but nice ... and again, it wound up him coming back here and the two of them going upstairs and having sex.   She said it was pretty good, he was very gentle, but she said he didn't seem very excited by her.   We met up with him a couple more times, but each time he didn't seem very interested.  Each time we also got the feeling he may actually be more into guys then women, even though he totally claimed he was straight.   We told him to text us or call us if he wanted to get together, but we weren't going to text him ... this would give us a good idea if he was interested.   He never did.

Again, back to square one.  Not sure how much more "meeting" people Lori was up for.   I guess for her, even if we met someone, it was basically a night out meeting someone new, having some drinks and she was pretty open minded.  At this point, she had zero expectations.

About three weeks ago, I received an email on AFF, saying Hi .. would be interested in meeting.  I wrote back and got some pictures, emailed back and forth a few times.  This guy (another Mike) seemed like a nice guy, in decent shape, though in his pictures he was fully clothed, and he seemed pretty good looking, but nothing spectacular.  Lori agreed to meeting him.

Well, we planned on meeting at a sports bar, he go there first, called me and said it had closed down.  Well, I came up with the idea of going to a Chinese restaurant that had karaoke because it was the only thing I could think of.  Well, we met, and he was extremely outgoing and fun, and turns out his pictures didn't do him justice.   He also doesn't drink, which is different for us, - we like to drink and get a good buzz on.   Well, the night went by and before I knew it, Lori and Mike were kissing at the bar.   I was a little blown away ... but the two of them totally hit it off.  We stayed somewhat later than I thought we would and she went in his truck with him to say good night, and they made out for a bit while I waited.  She got in my car and was so excited. 

The very next day, they were texting back and forth and it was getting quite hot, some very wild texts were going back and forth.   Then, something totally amazing, Lori bailed out of work early and he met her at our house.  The two of them took only a few minutes before they were kissing out on the deck.  They were going to go upstairs but Lori wanted to jump in the pool.  So they both got naked and jumped in, - within minutes Lori was sitting on the side of the pool while Mike licked her pussy.  It was extremely hot to watch ... but that only lasted a little bit.   The two of them headed upstairs and had some extremely hot and passionate sex.  They did everything ... 69, fucked in all sorts of positions, even back door!  Amazing ...

Lori was definitely hooked on this guy.   But she wasn't sure he was going to stick around, - she was now paranoid ... all the great looking guys with great body's seemed to be out just to chalk another one up and move on.  

Well the week went by and the following Thursday night, Lori and I were out at a local bar with friends and Lori text Mike, asked if he wanted to come out for a drink.   (wow, she usually tries to keep these things super discrete).   Mike said yes and showed up.  The two of them acted very discrete, she barely talked to him the first hour.  I wound up talking quite a bit to him - but that was good it made it look like he was more a friend of mine.   Well, as the night went on, the band started playing and the two of them started dancing.  They then proceeded to dance the rest of the night.
Lori loves dancing and guys that can dance.  Mike loves dancing - which is different from anyone she knows, and he dances quite well.   This just got Lori hotter and hotter.

We had planned to meet up that Saturday night at a singers party if we could get in - so we figured we'd see him Sat night.   Well, the following day, Lori and Mike texted and amazingly enough, we wound up out again on Friday night with him.  This time at a great club that was somewhat far from us, so the two of them could dance and flirt.  I wound up watching them dance all night long, grinding on the dance floor, kissing, grinding, etc.   It was extremely hot!  I love it when she's out in public with a guy, kissing him, grinding, etc - it's such a turn on.
The night ended and she went in his truck with him again, but he had to get up the next morning ... so they just kissed and rubbed each other some and he said he had to call it a night.
The two of us went home, I let the dogs out and came up to bed to find Lori already using her toy on herself.  We talked about how she felt and she is definitely hot for him,  she said she wanted to fuck him right on the dance floor.

Well, the next day came and we did get the OK to go to the swinger party, so we went and picked him up on the way.   The two of them hung together all night, Lori had on a really hot shirt with no back and no bra.  The two of them were kissing and playing with each other most of the night right in public.  A few times she introduced Mike to people they met as her boy-toy, and she pointed me out as her husband. It was pretty wild.    Lori and Mike couldn't wait any longer, they grabbed an open bedroom and went in, - Lori told me to come in with them so I could watch.  That was extremely hot.
So, I did - and within minutes they were fucking like crazy, - and only minutes later, Lori was cumming like crazy just from him fucking her.  Lori NEVER cums from fucking so I thought maybe she was faking it, but later that night she told me she absolutely came from him fucking her.
Mike finished and told me to take my clothes off and fuck my wife!  Lori looked at me and said, "well, c'mon" ... I stripped in two seconds flat - jumped on and fucked her like crazy.  I didn't come though, too much was going on I guess.   We finished with the room and enjoyed the rest of the party.  Later we drove MIke home where they both made out for a while and Lori and I went home.  When we got home, we did ourselves together in bed ... (what we usually do because Lori doesn't usually want to have sex with me).  Lori was so turned on ... and she was telling me how HOT she is for Mike, how he is THE ONE, and she could totally fall head over heals in love with him.  WOW, - that blew me way.   We both came like crazy!

It's been a few days since that night - Lori is at her daughters house for the week, but Lori and I talk and she has been telling me that her and Mike have been texting all day long, every day since she got there, some stuff just talking getting to know each other, - other stuff very hot sexting.  Lori's been finishing her nights by doing herself thinking about seeing him again.  They are making plans to see each other when she gets back.  She wants to see him the minute she gets back.

All in all, things are extremely hot and exciting right now!  I can't way to see how this plays out.

I will blog more.  I definitely think this is going to be one hot passionate affair that lasts.  I hope so ... she is so fun and exciting when she is in a hot affair.  

Oh, and Lori told me she thinks it will be quite some time before her and I have sex again.  lol

Rich